May 8th, 2009

What a week this has been.  Finished my three week Granny job with little Justin. This has caused me to reflect a lot about Moms and all they do.  Now I can consider myself to be a retired Mom who only responds when called to action, or when a volunteer position arises.

But I have to say at this point in life the ones who deserve the glory are my daughters.  They are the ones who are changing diapers, burping, wiping messes, functioning on little sleep and they are just at the beginning of this journey.  A journey that won't end for a long time.  There will be days when they will feel invisible, unloved, perhaps overlooked in the scheme of life as so much now is about the babies.  As these children grow they will still be the focus and in the supporting roll is the Mom.   Like the person who holds the ladder, never getting as much praise as the one who fixes the light.

These girls also have jobs, husbands, and parents to spread their attention.  Their first role in life was as our daughters, and they did that outstandingly.  Not to say there was never a challenge, but there was so much pride and joy as there continues to be on a daily basis.   They are hard working, responsible and loyal employees to their jobs.  And those traits carry over into their marriages as well.  They choose wonderful, hardworking men for husbands, who in turn have grown into great Dads for these precious grandchildren of ours.  They help out when they can, knowing that many hands lightens the load.   Our family has been through a lot, but we have traveled it together.

So my darling daughters, now the job comes down to raising loving, thoughtful, respectful children who will continue to go out into the world and make it a better place.  It isn't always easy, but it is worth it.  Follow your heart, let your common sense come through in your decisions.  Know that you won't always be loved for what you do or the parenting choices that you make, but always, always do what you feel is right.  Instinct and intuition will help you along the way.  And of course, I will be there to help if I can.  I love you both so much.

So on this Mother's Day, my heart goes to the Moms who are in active service.  Your rewards come in the grins and giggles of your little ones and the joy and gratitude of your parents.

And to my Mom, many thanks and much appreciation for the years of giving.  It does not go forgotten.  I know that you are still there willing to help at anytime.

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